You may call me Kalika.
I reside at the threshold—where the desires of your holistic nature meet your taboo, sacred self.
This is where I invite you to meet me.
Free. Playful. Primal. Non-conforming. Gender-bending.
This is how I move.
And it is how I meet you.
My Dominant, fluid nature is not summoned— it is invoked.
It comes alive through sincerity and integrity.
So I ask this of you: come as you are— without pretense, without performance.
Some experience me as a Shamanatrix—
a guide through the upper and lower realms of psyche and eros, where shadow and truth intertwine.
Others meet me as an Enchanter—
unravelling what has bound them,
and weaving a life of passion, vitality, and embodied truth.
My nature is tender, passionate, and unwavering—
capable of meeting you in nurturing softness
or unflinching intensity,
depending on what truth arises through our interdependence.
I walk beside you as a companion in awakening—
not to a version of yourself,
but to the entirety of your being:
spiritual, sexual, somatic, emotional, energetic.
With me, you are invited into integration—
into the lived embodiment of all that you are, as everything you have been through and everything you wish to become, converge, and reconcile.
What lights me up?
Intimacy and connection that strips away distortion.
Diversity, inclusion, and the sacredness of contrast.
Leaning into the unknown edges within ourselves—
especially those we’ve been taught to hide.
And exploring power dynamics, story telling, and paradox as roadmaps for self-actualization.
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2005 BA in Philosophy with Concentration in Bioethics and Taoism
2005 Training in Zen Buddhism under Adhyashanti (lineage of Arvis Joen Justi, Taizan Maezumo Roshi, and Jakusho Kwong)
2006 Ashtanga Yoga Teacher Certification from the Yoga Kingdom Sanctuary in CA (Lineage of Paramahamsa Yogananda, and Babaji)
2007 Training in Kriya Yoga from the Self Realization Fellowship (lineage of Paramahamsa Yogananda, and Babaji)
2009 Training and Certification (in 2012) in Sri Shakti Healing and Meditation from the Shiva Sai Mandir in Andhra Pradesh, India (lineage of Sri Kaleshwar, Shirdi Said Baba, Paramahamsa Yogananda, and Babaji)
2014 Began a seven year mentorship as a submissive under the care of one specific male dominant who trained me in BDSM
2016 Began a four year mentorship as a dominatrix under the guidance and supervision of the same male dominant
2021 Dr. Joe Dizpenza Intensive and Progressive Courses
2022 ‘Science and Practice of Heart Coherence’ course from Heart Math Institute and Rollin McCraty PhD
2023 Dr. Joe Dizpenza Progressive Course for Personal Transformation
2024 Colette Pervette Shadow Series Dominatrix Training
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SYSTEMS
Nonviolent Communication (NVC) process created by Marshall B. Rosenberg, Ph.D
Synergetic Geometry formulated by R. Buckminster Fuller
Blueprint for Pleasure created by Jaiya
Quantum Healing Hypnosis Technique (QHHT) by Dolores Cannon
INDIVIDUALS
Kasia Urbaniak (trained for 17 yrs to be a Taoist nun while working as a successful Dominatrix in NYC)
Byron Katie and her teachings
Gangaji and her teachings
Eckhart Tolle and his teachings
Krishnamurti and his teachings
Hafiz
Rumi
Gregg Braden and his research
Sarah Breskman Cosme and her work as a QHHT practitioner
Thomas Hübl and his work on connection, trauma, and collective healing through interdependence
BOOKS
“The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture” By Gabor Mate
“Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power” by Carolyn Elliott Ph.D
“The Artist’s Way” by Julia Cameron
“Living a Committed Life” & “The Soul of Money” by Lynne Twist
“The Prophet” by Kahlil Gibran
“Attuned” by Thomas Hübl
“Unbound: A Woman’s Guide to Power” by Kasia Urbaniak (a read on applied spirituality for everyone, not just women)