2005 BA in Philosophy with Concentration in Bioethics and Taoism

2005 Training in Zen Buddhism under Adhyashanti (lineage of Arvis Joen Justi, Taizan Maezumo Roshi, and Jakusho Kwong)

2006 Ashtanga Yoga Teacher Certification from the Yoga Kingdom Sanctuary in CA (Lineage of Paramahamsa Yogananda, and Babaji)

2007 Training in Kriya Yoga from the Self Realization Fellowship (lineage of Paramahamsa Yogananda, and Babaji)

2009 Training and Certification (in 2012) in Sri Shakti Healing and Meditation from the Shiva Sai Mandir in Andhra Pradesh, India (lineage of Sri Kaleshwar, Shirdi Said Baba, Paramahamsa Yogananda, and Babaji)

2014 Began a seven year mentorship as a submissive under the care of one specific male dominant who trained me in BDSM

2016 Began a four year mentorship as a dominatrix under the guidance and supervision of the same male dominant

2021 Dr. Joe Dizpenza Intensive and Progressive Courses

2022 ‘Science and Practice of Heart Coherence’ course from Heart Math Institute and Rollin McCraty PhD

2023 Dr. Joe Dizpenza Progressive Course for Personal Transformation

2024 Colette Pervette Shadow Series Dominatrix Training

SYSTEMS

• Nonviolent Communication (NVC) process created by Marshall B. Rosenberg, Ph.D

• Synergetic Geometry formulated by R. Buckminster Fuller

• Blueprint for Pleasure created by Jaiya

• Quantum Healing Hypnosis Technique (QHHT) by Dolores Cannon

INDIVIDUALS

• Kasia Urbaniak (trained for 17 yrs to be a Taoist nun while working as a successful Dominatrix in NYC)

• Byron Katie and her teachings

• Gangaji and her teachings

• Eckhart Tolle and his teachings

• Krishnamurti and his teachings

• Hafiz

• Rumi

• Gregg Braden and his research

• Sarah Breskman Cosme and her work as a QHHT practitioner

• Thomas Hübl and his work on connection, trauma, and collective healing through interdependence

BOOKS

• “The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture” By Gabor Mate

• “Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power” by Carolyn Elliott Ph.D

• “The Artist’s Way” by Julia Cameron

• “Living a Committed Life” & “The Soul of Money” by Lynne Twist

• “The Prophet” by Kahlil Gibran

• “Attuned” by Thomas Hübl

• “Unbound: A Woman’s Guide to Power” by Kasia Urbaniak (a read on applied spirituality for everyone, not just women)

Consent, as I know it now, was not something I was taught —
it was something I was initiated into.

First, through surrender.
Then, through holding power.

And in both directions, I came to recognize the same truth:

Consent is not an agreement.
It is a living current.

It moves.
It listens.
It reveals.

It is the moment where truth meets willingness —
where a yes is not spoken from the mind,
but arises from the body as something unmistakable, honest
undeniable, whole.

A yes that is given… and can be taken back.

To enter this work with me is to step into relationship with that current.

Not as a rule —
but as a practice of presence.

Before we ever meet in session, we meet in awareness.

In our initial conversation, we open the field:
your desires, your edges, your curiosities, your limits.
Not as a performance — but as an offering of truth.

I meet you there with my own.

Clear. Boundaried. Unambiguous.

This is where alignment is felt — or not.
And I only proceed when the alignment is real.

If we choose to move forward, we do so deliberately.

We name the terrain.
We establish anchors — including safewords — not as a safety net of last resort,
but as threads of communication woven into the experience itself.

And then… we begin.

Inside the session, my attention is not only on what you say —
but on what your body reveals.

Breath.
Tension and contraction.
Micro-shifts in energy.

I listen for the places where your yes is clear —
and the places where it trembles.

And when it trembles, we pause.

Because in this space, nothing is taken.

Even your uncertainty has a voice here.

You are invited — again and again —
to feel, to notice, to name what is true for you in real time.

This is part of the initiation:
learning to recognize your own edge as it arises,
and to stay in relationship with it without abandoning yourself.

The power exchange we enter is not built on control over you.

It is built on integrity.
On attunement.
On the understanding that we are both responsible
for what is being created between us.

Power, here, is something we generate together.

And because of that, integrity is non-negotiable.

If a boundary is crossed — named or felt — we bring it into the open.
If it cannot be honored, the container closes.

Not as punishment.
But as devotion to the work itself.

Because this work asks something of you.

It asks for your honesty.
Your awareness.
Your willingness to stay present at the edge of yourself
without collapsing or bypassing the truth of what you’re experiencing.

Consent, in this space, becomes more than permission.

It becomes a mirror.

A way of seeing where you override yourself…
and where you are ready to choose differently.

And if you stay with it — truly stay —
it will take you somewhere most people never allow themselves to go:

Into a deeper trust.
Into a more embodied truth.
Into a version of yourself that no longer needs to perform a yes
that isn’t real.

This is not casual.

And it is not for those who are looking to remain unchanged.